muhammad ulil albab: Redefining Love

Most of a people in Indonesia especially the parents still have a perception about marriage. They have assumption if their daughter wants to marry someone, Their daughter or son should fulfil several requirements like; finishing a study, finding a job and other parametric of measurement based on wealth or similar with itself.

Another paradigm, a son stressed to have finished their study in a bachelor or even master. In nowadays, the environment is not really good where we can be easy to fill up desire. The parents are selfish and never hear problems from their children. It will be better if the process for marrying easier than an illegal relationship. Please don't blame us if we have mistakes. Guide us to find the truth way, we want to complete a half of "deen" through married. Moreover, Woman can support through make easier for a man to propose you.

We know that to protect from something that illegal, We can do fasting and others. However, sometimes all of that statement is truth. I just want to mention, please be wise to your children if they had grow and want to build a new generation. Don't every try to stop their willingness.

Lower Silesia,  29 November 2016; 5:34 CET